Tuesday, August 16, 2011

"Anything that's worth having Is sure enough worth fighting for" *

I envy those people who take back lovers/friends even after they have disappointed or betray them. It is not like I want to be in their position, feel their pain (sometimes over and over again). I just admire the way they can forgive other people and trust them in spite all that happened.
I already have troubles giving people a first chance let along a second one.
Some people might say they are crazy, naïve. But I do admire them, I truly do. It must be so nice to have that faith in people, in love.
Sure maybe they will get hurt sometimes/most of times. But what if it does work? What if that person really just made one mistake? Is it really worth it to throw everything away? Can’t we just fix it and move on?
I am not saying we should let people play with our feelings but maybe sometimes it is better to forgive… I believe there are different types of brave people. Some may not be afraid to go inside a building on fire or face the scariest creatures. But honestly I think the bravest of them all are people who are not afraid of their feelings and that are willing to let themselves go fully in a relationship. And even if that makes them suffer often, I like to believe that in the end it is all worth it.


* Title by Cheryl Cole - Fight For This Love

7 comments :

Anonymous said...

sometimes the best thing to do is just close your eyes and jump... don't think.

Kathleen said...

It's easier to say than do

Anonymous said...

Like!

Anonymous said...

Have you ever try?

Sofia said...

forgive but don't forget.
I think trust need to be earn again in these cases but everyone makes mistakes...
and sometimes a little mistake can hurt more, a lot more, than a big one.

Kathleen said...

Anonymous: in a truly complete and utter way probably not,
Sofia: I specially agree with the last part

Dudu said...

... i mean even if the others are not being sincere and honest ( it's a case of being good at identifying these pricks ) , you should always give it all , because in the end it's all about being real and leaving true and intense relationships where you're tottaly not scared of the " dark " . but be warned , this is applied to cases which you're undoubtfuly positive that the juice coming out of that orange is 100% worth the squeeze ( but hey i guess you never know hun !!! ), bottom line just give ur best and ur all. Fuuuck loool . Nice post Filipa Rondo...