Friday, November 18, 2011

They say everything happens for a reason...



They say everything happens for a reason...
I’ve heard it so many times. I probably said it too every now and then, but sometimes I wonder what exactly that’s supposed to mean.
Should we not plan too far in advance because what will be will be? Should we just navigate through life waiting for our fate to come to us?
Is there really always a reason, an explanation for what happened? Did we deserved it? Could we have prevented it? Could we have played it differently? And would that make a difference?
How much of it is under our control?
Don’t know if there’s always a reason… I really don’t. Sometimes it all just feels so unfair so wrong. However, you have to fight. You have to take it and run with it. You can’t let it push you down. You have to get back up and get something out of it.
It’s easy to be successful and happy when everything is going your way, the true challenge is doing it when the whole world is conspiring against you.
You got to be resilient, you got to keep getting back on your feet and believe that in the end it all meant something… and if nothing else, at least it had showed you, once more, that you are stronger than you believe.

4 comments :

Rita said...

I hope so :)

KKaytno said...

I think I am resilient, but it is really that sometimes "all just feels so unfair..."

Continue writing, you are GREAT!!!

Fi Ferreira said...

Me too Rita, me too!

Fi Ferreira said...

KKaytno, still other people have been through so much worst and they seem to have come out of it okay, so we just have to be inspired by them and keep fighting "Anything that´s worth having is sure enough worth fighting for, quiting's out of the question When it gets tough gotta fight some more" (CC)