Good people do stupid things

Good people do stupid things, it’s a fact, they do. Things happen, people make mistakes, some might cost them what most important they had in their lives… Nobody’s perfect and even though sometimes it’s hard to cope with the disappointment, we have to step back and see if that’s really who they are or if it was just a slip. Good people make undeniable mistakes, they mess up, they hurt people along the way in ways that we can’t even explain… We can’t get it, probably never will. You’ll be wounded, feel cheated, let down, mad, and have all the right to have those feelings. But is that really who that person is?

I get it, after seeing a side of that someone that you never knew exist it’s confusing, and you wonder if everything else was a lie too. It’s hard to believe you’re talking about the same person and because you don’t want to feel that pain again it’s easier just to use your anger to try to eliminate all the good moments, focus only on the bad and walk away.

Maybe you should… But just because good people do stupid things that doesn’t mean they’re not good anymore. All the things that you loved before are still there is just a matter of weighting them to see what’s really important.

Good people are not those who don’t make mistakes, but the ones that admit their own and try to fix them. Good people are the one who have good heart and good intentions and even if they struggled at some point, they’ll do their best not to let it happen again.

Life is not about being perfect and never fail, it’s about learning from what went wrong in the past and try to be a better person in the future.